My daughter, who is all of 3, is extremely curious these days. She's always asking me questions, taking things apart, and being aggressive about doing almost everything that I do. She's simply driving me up-the-wall with her "I'll answer the bell" , "I'll open the door" , "no one will touch my toys", "I want to go to so-and-so's house" Etc., etc. If I manage to convince her to go in for a bath, it takes even more convincing to get her out. If i can tempt her to go out and play with me, it'll be even more difficult to get her to come back home. Its like this for EVERYTHING we do. Finding it really difficult to cope with this tiny, defiant, aggressive and almost cheeky little imp, who used to be so sweet, obedient, almost docile just a few months ago........ She seems to have developed this ability to question everything that i say to her. It could be: "beta come here?" - "why?" OR "beta eat this"- "why?" OR "beta dont pour water on the couch" - "why?" ........ AAAAAAAARRRRRGH.......... What does one doooooo......... She wants her clothes to match with her shoes and clips and hanky! its like an early teenage with the inability to understand the world around thrown into the whole aggressive , cheeky, angry-young-lady mix. God!! help me when she hits her teens.